Spring Blossoms

May 9th, 2010 by Monique 1 comment »

Happy Mothers’ Day!

As nature is springing to life across Northeastern Ohio, I can’t help but think of the Tree of Wisdom children who have just finished their first term in school.  Many of these children had never been in school before this February.  The children in Gulu arrived at St. Monica’s to look for Sr. Rosemary so they could show her their reports.  They all worked very hard and got very good marks.  How proud and happy they were to have a chance to learn and show their abilities.  Sr Rosemary also received reports from Atiak and Paidha about the excellent performance of the Tree of Wisdom children.

The stories of the individual children have been amazing.  Some of them we know more about than others.  As we get more information we will add it to the website.

Let me share with you the Story of James R.

James is a 12 year old boy from Atiak, a very poor village about 2 hours north of Gulu which was devastated by the war about ten years ago.  Several years ago James was orphaned as a result of his father killing his mother.  He was living with an uncle who is very poor and unable to send him to school.  In November James was invited to be a part of  the Tree of Wisdom family.

Sr. Rosemary conducted the first Tree of Wisdom meeting in Atiak in November with about 40 orphans and their guardians.  She explained that we would be providing school fees, uniforms, and other basic necessities to the children in the program.  When she was finished, she asked if there were any questions.  Young James stood up and said to her, “Sister, I know that I have worms living in my belly.  What good is an education going to do for me if I die?  I need healthcare.”  He was right–what a wise young man.

On that day James and two other children who were identified to be at health risk were taken to the hospital in Gulu for testing and medical care.   The doctors confirmed James’ suspicions.  He did indeed have worms in his belly. He has since been treated, is healthy and thriving.

Through this experience, Sr Rosemary discovered that James had an amazing aptitude for learning.  Despite his limited education, he spoke English very well.  The decision was made to keep James in Gulu so he could attend a higher quality school.  A few weeks later, an American Jesuit priest arrived at St Monica’s asking Sister if she knew of any children who might benefit from a Jesuit education.  She immediately thought of James.  He met with the priest and explained that he would someday like to be a teacher.  James will be attending the Jesuit school being built in Gulu once they are able to receive students.

Some months later, Sister Rosemary met with James again.  She found him to be excelling in school and adapting very well to his new environment.  He said to her, ” Sister, I think I want to be a priest.  The word of God is sweet to me and I want to share it with other people.”  Needless to say, James is an inspiring young man.  I am humbled to think of the blessings he will share with the people in his future as a result of the opportunity he has been given by Tree of Wisdom.

The generosity of our sponsors will continue to have far reaching benefits for many.  Because of James’ statement about the need for healthcare, TOW has created a contingency fund for children like James who have additional needs that cannot be paid for with the basic sponsorship funds.   The fund is being supported by individual donors and some of the proceeds from the St Monica’s Bead project.  It will allow us to meet the special needs of some of the orphans including healthcare, hospitalization, secondary school tuition, special formulas for malnourished babies, etc.  This allows Tree of Wisdom to  continue to support the children even if they go beyond the funds provided by basic sponsorship.  Thanks to all of you, once again, for your generosity and support.

We can change the world, one child at a time.

God bless you all!

A Lenten Reflection

February 18th, 2010 by Sr. Rosemary 2 comments »

A BEAUTIFUL BEGININING OF LENT.  I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST DURING THIS IMPORTANT SEASON.

I would like to share  a story of a few days ago…

Tree of Wisdom is eventually not only for sponsorship for kids but is becoming life saving as well.  We have gone well beyond the education only, but more in welfare of kids and their growth.

A woman named Grace who is HIV+ and a widow, was sent by God yesterday evening to our house as two us missed to go in for prayer because we did not hear the bell ring. To me she had the face of Jesus, hungry and sick.  She was carrying her baby  and they walked in the the first heavy rain after the dry spell we experienced for long, looking for something to eat after staying hungry for three days with her children.  She arrived all washed by rain and was shivering with a hungry baby.  She  looked for some employment like washing people’s clothes the whole day, and did not find anybody who could give her work for even less than ten dollars to buy food for her 3 kids.  No one wanted to hire her because she was HIV+.

I thought the kid was very small, but when Sr. Pauline and I came to the mother with some left over food from our house, the kid stretched out his little hands to receive the food.  This action put me off and I realized the kid is one year old but looks like only six months because he is under fed.  This was a sight impossible to ignore.  I thank God because we had some food left in the house enough to feed this woman and her 3 kids.

I told the woman to return the next day.  She is going to join other women making necklaces in order to get some money with dignity to look after her children, while the baby can be fed in our Day Care Centre.

The Tree of Wisdom is making us go an extra mile to develop the dignity of the most vulnerable people as well.  I am impressed at the how my sisters from time to time come back from their different places of work to tell me the needs of children and poor mothers they meet.  Without the gift of the Tree of Wisdom,  we would have closed our eyes and ignored some of these urgent needs, or we would respond in a way which might make people recall  some negative things nuns did to them while they were in schools.  I am now realizing that, in the past, some negative situations could have been created when the nuns felt there was no way to respond to such situations as these ones.  I am trying to read the past in the present and, “At Such A Time As This”,  thank you for making us understand that our vocation is clearly seen in the faces of the poor, hungry, and malnourished Jesus.

We did not know this project would lead us as far as this.  Thanks to those who have managed to decorate the Tree of Wisdom with the beautiful necklaces made by the guardians, poor women and grand parents of TOW children.

I am always wondering about what God is doing to this Tree but with time the leaves are growing and the branches are expanding in God’s direction.  Maybe it is too early to clearly say, these are our objectives as well.  God seems to be spelling out the objectives and mission statement too.  God is writing the Strategic Plan for the Tree of Wisdom.  Let us be quiet and thank him.

God bless our Tree and its fruits.

Sr. Rosemary Nyirumbe

Off to School!!

January 26th, 2010 by Monique No comments »

What an exciting time it has been preparing for the Tree of Wisdom children to begin school!  Sr Rosemary, Mr Komakec and many others have been busily gathering supplies.  With 87 children now adopted into the program the lists are long.  The items include uniforms, shoes, book bags, notebooks, pens, pencils, erasers, etc.  Remember how excited we all were preparing for our first day of school?  Imagine how happy and hopeful these children are with their new supplies that represent hope for a future.

Some of the things we in America don’t think about when returning to school are also included.  A new plate and cup will be provided so that the children can take part in the food provided at the school.  We are also providing bars of soap for the children–one for bathing and one for laundry.  Good hygiene is the first step toward good health.  Finally, mosquito nets will be provided to each of the children to reduce their exposure to the mosquitoes that cause malaria–a disease that takes more lives every year in Africa than HIV.

Allow me to take this opportunity to share with you the story of Rosemary, a lovely young woman we had the pleasure of meeting on our last trip to Uganda.  When Rosemary was born, she was abandoned by her father,  and her mother was unable to care for her. The mother asked the Sisters at St Monica to care for her child.  They willingly accepted, along with Catherine, the biological sister of Sister Rosemary.  Young Rosemary grew up beautifully and last weekend graduated with high honors from the University.  She is now volunteering a lot of her time helping with the Tree of Wisdom project.  She says, ” I am one of them.  Without the help of the Sisters, I never could have come to this place in my life. This is my opportunity to share my gifts with them.”  She has provided tremendous inspiration to these children, as she travels from place to place telling them her story.  Her example shows us all the difference that love and support can make in the life of a child.  Congratulations to Rosemary for her hard work and dedication, and for being a beacon of light!!  Our hope is that the Tree of Wisdom children will follow in her footsteps.

The first day of school is February 1.  Please say a special prayer for the children on this day.

With gratitude,

Monique

TOW children dressed in Christmas clothes for school

UNICEF – The Convention on the Rights of the Child – People and Partners – Sister Rosemary

January 22nd, 2010 by Monique No comments »

Click here to see an article written by Sr. Rosemary for UNICEF.

UNICEF – The Convention on the Rights of the Child – People and Partners – Sister Rosemary.

First Fruits–Sister Rosemary’s 3 village tour to launch the Tree of Wisdom

December 20th, 2009 by Monique 3 comments »

The Tree of Wisdom is growing with amazing strength!  It’s branches are already reaching out to shelter and feed over 70 orphans in Northern Uganda.  The children live in the vicinity of 3 main villages:  Gulu, Atiak, and Paidha.  Over the past 2 weeks, Sr. Rosemary has been traveling to these areas and meeting with all of the orphans and their guardians to introduce them to the Tree of Wisdom program.  Explaining that the Tree of Wisdom is not just a handout, but intended to care for the children in all ways.  They need to be fed, clothed, sent to school, well cared for, and supported in the home environment.  We have hired a young man named Robert Komakech to follow the children, and see that these goals are being met.  In his words, he is going to be their father and will watch over them.  The new program has been received with great enthusiasm by all.  The children are now part of the TOW family–a sense of belonging which is sorely needed by all people, especially orphans.  The guardians have decided to start an association among themselves to support one another.  Thanks to the generosity of all of you,  a beautiful new family is growing roots.

When Sister met with the children they had many interesting questions.  One young boy, 12 years old, said we could send him to school and feed him but he was concerned about his health.  He said, “my abdomen is distended and I know there is something living in there, what good is school if I die from this disease?” A very wise young man.  Many of these children have distended abdomens either from malnutrition or from schistosomiasis–a parasite contracted through the skin from not wearing shoes.  With this we decided to ask the Physician Assistant and Nurse from St Monica’s to go to the villages to provide some basic healthcare for these children.

Sister asked a group of  children how we could make Christmas special for them this year.  A young child stood up and said they would love to get to eat meat on Christmas day.  All the rest enthusiastically agreed.  When our children are asked what they want for Christmas, do they ask for food?   So, in honor of Christmas, the first fruits of the Tree of Wisdom included a bag of rice, a small amount of money to buy meat for Christmas day, and a small toy for each of the children.  Sister said it was amazing the smiles that it brought to the childrens’ faces.  Now this is the true meaning of Christmas.  All of our sponsors are bringing hope to the hopeless–THANK YOU!!

Gob bless you and your families at this beautiful Christmas Season.  Let’s remember to be thankful for all the little things we all take for granted in this land of plenty.

Merry Christmas!

Monique

THE POWER OF SHARING

November 25th, 2009 by Sr. Rosemary 1 comment »
Little Daisy njoying her banana

Little Daisy enjoying a Banana

Dear friends

As winter draws near for you, we have just entered the hottest time of the year where the   sun shines bright by 8.OO a.m. The wind blows gently bringing joy and happiness but at the same time it  makes people see the importance of Trees which provide cool shades and act as  air conditioner.

This morning as I walked in the compound looking for some fresh air , I saw a little boy called Moses Ochan 5 years old, lying helpless under a mango tree in the compound.   His mother Joyce Aloyo , a woman living with disability, sat helpless near her son with a 2 year old daughter Daisy Aber.   They all looked unhappy indicating something was not right.

The trio  caught my attention and  as I moved closer to them, I found the boy was feverish and the mother was helpessly sitting near him.  One of the sisters took the boy to the nearby hospital for a blood test for malaria.  It turned out that he was not only having malaria but  was very anaemic too.

As the mother moves with her son to hospital, I asked her to leave the little Daisy under our care because she could not manage to carry the two kids on her wheelchair.    Daisy touched my heart when she heard me requesting  the mother to leave her behind, she quickly got up and ran to hold my hands.  We walked together  to the house and I found out she was hungry and needed something to fill her little stomach.  As I gave her two bananas, she walked out immediately to take the second banana to her brother.  I wonder how this young kid reasoned about sharing wih her brother who was also hungry, but it touched me.

I recall Mother Teresa saying that the poor know how to share…………

The mother rides her wheel chair with the little Daisy in front every day coming to St. Monica to do some work for which she would be paid to sustain her family.  I started seeing clearly that this woman struggles a lot to ride on bad roads but has no choice.  She must move with her children every day because she cannot leave them alone behind with no food and care.  My temporary disability helped me  understand the struggles and sacrifices this woman and many people living permanently with disability go through in order to make ends meet.

An exciting thought came to my mind that we can now make the life of this woman a little better beacuse the Tree of Wisdom is growing and spreading its leaves and branches rapidly.  I am so excited that we are going to include the two  children on our adoption program.  They can find shelter, food and medical care especially provision of mosqitoe nets to fight malaria.   The mother has started working on necklaces as part of her job.  Thanks to all who make us go a long way to bring hope to children and their helpless mothers, and grandmothers.

After planting the Tree of Wisdom, a good number of friends took up the work of watering and adding manure to it with a lot of  committment.  Thank you so much for your good and dedicated work.  HAVE YOU VISITED THE TREE OF WISDOM SINCE A WEEK AGO?  IT IS A MIRACLE, A MIRACLE OF GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!! It is growing more leaves and stronger branches daily to support the children.   THIS IS THE  POWER OF SHARING AND A DREAM COME TRUE!!!!!

Thank you friends for your great support which has made this dream come true in the lives of children who lack the basic necessities for a healthy growth.  Thanks for your generous sharing with these children in Northern Uganda.  We hope to send you pictures soon.

God bless you all

Sr. Rosemary

5 days later…..

Sharing can become  heavy when it causes pain in our hearts but however much we keep it, we have  to find a way of sharing it with those who care.    I have been wondering  how I could share this hard fact which became part of us for the last one week.  Sharing pain with those who suffer  makes us go a little further to question the reasons behind the pain and sufferings, it means we must not only stop at listening but  move on to do small things with love to remove some causes of suffering due to injustices.

Today we are sharing the painful story of 5 year old Moses who was admitted last week in Hospital.  Moses struggled with malaria, malnutrition and anemia.  The last time we visited him in his hospital bed he was more helpless.  Two days later the mother who is physically challenged carried her helpless son away from the hospital where he was less attended to and  sitting on a motobike (Boda Boda) they arrived  in St. Monica’s compound again looking for help.

We rushed Moses and the mother to Lacor missionary  hospital with better management but unfortunately, he passed away in less than an hour.

I will  not forget that sight which reminds me of the pain the Our Lady the sorrowful mother  might have gone through as she held her beloved son in the  arms,  portrayed by the famous artist Michaelangelo.

The mother of Moses is heart broken and like any other mother losing a child, she is still desperately mourning her son.  Daisy has remained with the sisters since then and the mother looks more worried about the little girl as well.  I ask you to remember this woman and her daughter Daisy in your prayers.

Ecclesiastes 3: 1 says there is appointed time for everything, and a time for every affair under the heavens. I think this is the time to value the Tree of Wisdom which will give hope for the children.  It is not just to lose a child at 5 years to malaria and malnutrition, but there are so many children who do not reach even five years because  of this  preventable disease.   Join us to do something to fight this injustices in the society by giving children a hope for a longer life.  Give the injustices which reduces the life expectancy of children.

…….this means, we must not  stop at listening but move on to do small things with love to remove the causes of sufferings in the world.  Give a chance to  poor children to grow and live through  the TREE OF WISDOM.

Sr. Rosemary

Atiak children climbing trees

September 19th, 2009 by Sr. Rosemary No comments »

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I LOVE THE TREE OF WISDOM

September 16th, 2009 by Sr. Rosemary No comments »

awia yatCan we count the contributions Trees make to our life?
I used to enjoy tree climbing when I was young. But I have forgotten what I used to like and enjoy about it. These days I get worried when I see children climbing trees up to the top branches. Having realized I used to do the same, I always hold my breath and close my mouth for uttering a word which may scare children while climbing trees. I always pray they come down safely as they climb up safely with a lot of happiness too. Children know why tree climbing is good. I guess we can all try to climb, and can find this secret even if we never climbed any tree before in our life. This is the time that the Lord has made for us to try to climb a Tree.

I asked a five year old boy called Trevor about what he likes about tree climbing and I was amazed at his spontaneous response. “I like climbing Trees because I find birds hiding there from people who destroy their nests.” I had forgotten about birds nesting up there and trying to find safety.
This was a very wise response which I never expected from his age. I took it as advice to value and protect the weak and defenseless creatures of God. How do birds find protection in Trees?

Think about this reality of life which brings us very near to the Tree of Wisdom.
Trees provide this care and protection to delicate life in a unique way.

Hi friends, I want to share with you my insight about the “TREE OF WISDOM.” I want to invite you to join us in following the growth of this TREE.  Let us remember that every part of the Tree has a special role to play in its life and growth. As we are planting it, we shall need to water it as well, as it continues growing and spreading its branches, providing wisdom and shelter to many poor children in Northern Uganda.
Let’s join hands to tend the Tree of Wisdom in order for it to grow and provide Hope , Shelter, Wisdom, Knowledge, safety and above all protection to poor children who lack the basic necessities of life. Let the Tree of Wisdom grow to protect these children from situations which can destroy the “NESTS” of their future and give them a new opportunity to grow in Wisdom.

I thank all who want to join hands in planting this TREE of WISDOM. You are the Leaves, Trunk and Roots. The beautiful leaves sometimes mixed with flowers will tell how strong the Tree is and the Trunk will determine the direction the tree is taking while the Roots will tell how firmly the Tree is standing.

Anyone of us can choose to be part of our TREE of WISDOM. All parts are important, and the Tree cannot stand when some parts are not there.

I LOVE THE TREE OF WISDOM
Sr. Rosemary Nyirumbe

The Story of Clara

September 10th, 2009 by Sr. Rosemary No comments »

I want to write the story of Clara…uganda 2008285_edited

Clara is a devout woman who spent her time serving the Church as a catechist. As usual, catechists I know in our church do not have any salary, and Clara spent her time doing voluntary work in the Church. Sometimes they are supported by people who give them very little, just for survival. Both Clara and her husband lived a very exemplary life of a good Christian family. Her husband died, leaving her with many children who did not go far with their studies because they were quite poor. Now as a retired catechist, she acts as an advisor to the pastoral council, a widow and a grandmother. Clara looks after 6 children of her son and daughter who died. Sometimes Clara finds herself helpless when she cannot provide food for these children.

Clara represents all the grandmothers who suffer looking after orphans. It will be great to reach out with helping hands to some of these grandmothers. The Tree of Wisdom is a big dream come true in the lives of orphans and poor children who have no future because they lack basic facilities like education, food, uniforms, shoes, healthcare and others.

May God bless all our friends,
Sister Rosemary Nyirumbe

Just a note: When Clara was given the opportunity to help her grandchildren through Tree of Wisdom, she chose one child of her daughter and one of her son to carry on for them. We are hoping if we have an overwhelming response, we may be able to help all of her grandchildren to have a chance at a future through education.

Tree of Wisdom Distant Adoption

September 7th, 2009 by admin 2 comments »
welcome to our school!

welcome to our school!

As we start a new  year, we are embarking on a very exciting new project called Tree of Wisdom Distant Adoption. As many of  you know, my husband Stan and I are both physicians who traveled to Northern Uganda in July 2008. It was an experience that changed us both forever. The conditions are grim and the poverty is extreme. Half of the population is less than 15 years old. As a result of 20 years of rebel insurgency warfare and HIV, there are many orphans.  We just couldn’t turn our backs on them.

Since returning home, it has become clearer to us why we went in the first place. We are striving to find ways to provide relief directly. While in Uganda we were very lucky to make some close friendships. The most special of which was with Sister Rosemary Nyirumbe    , Director of St. Monica’s Girls’ Tailoring Centre, and winner of the 2007 CNN Heroes Award. Together we have developed a program for distant adoption of children who don’t have the basic necessities of life.

Sr. Rosemary has identified many children who are unable to attend primary school due to lack of resources. A donation of $150 per year will provide a specific child with food, clothing, and the necessities of life for hope for a future.  The sponsors will receive the name of the child, a picture, and at least one letter from them at some point in the year. All donor information, except for first names, will be kept strictly confidential by me. All correspondence will be directed to me and I will distribute it via regular or e-mail.

If you would be interested in sponsoring one of these children please send a check for $150 made out to Tree of Wisdom:

Tree of Wisdom Distant Adoption
PO Box 272
Avon Lake, OH 44012

If you have further questions please do not hesitate to contact me at 440-949-9066.  Your donation will be used to help your adopted child and is fully tax deductible. Please include your address, phone number, and e-mail address, indicating how you prefer to be contacted. No information will be shared with third parties.  Thank you in advance for opening your heart to these needy children.

God bless you,
Monique Richardson, MD