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Upcoming Bead Sales

August 16th, 2010

We will be participating in several festivals in the Western Cleveland suburbs in the upcoming months.

Check out the St. Monica’s Beads page for details.“Love my anklets!!!”

A Strong Tree Growing in Uganda

August 11th, 2010

Afoyo to all as I return from a most inspiring month in Uganda!  I spent July traveling around Northern Uganda with Sister Rosemary bearing witness to the amazing growth of the Tree of Wisdom.  Everywhere we went we were met with smiling faces of children.  They were singing, healthy and happy–thrilled to have the chance to go to school. The guardians were full of gratitude to all the sponsors in America, asking that I thank all of you for lifting some of their burden.

The many women making beads and bags are so grateful for the opportunity to earn a living and support their children.

After landing in Kampala we travelled to Gulu, the major town in Northern Uganda.  We were warmly welcomed by the Sisters and students at St. Monica’s Girls Tailoring Centre, a school run by the Sisters of the Sacred Heart of Jesus that provides vocational training for young women in Northern Uganda.  St. Monica’s targets disadvantaged young women, many of whom were previously abducted in the war. This is the headquarters of the St. Monica’s Bead project.  Many women are participating in creating beautiful paper jewelry and cloth bags to help support themselves and their children.  Your purchases of these items are helping to sustain this income generating activity for these women.

Our first Tree of Wisdom event took place in the Village of Atiak, situated 2 hours north of Gulu.  The people of Atiak are struggling with starvation as they are in their third year of drought.  There are 60 TOW orphans in this area.  Our first Sunday gathering was spent with them.  The children were well dressed and clean and healthy.  Many were wearing their school uniforms.   They sang for us and waited patiently as the meeting began.  The guardians have formed a co-op and are banding together to help support each other.  This was very much an unexpected fruit of the project.

The children were excused from the meeting and were so excited to play with the great balls, jumpropes, frisbees and other toys purchased by many of you! We had a beautiful meal and then they wrote letters and drew pictures for all of you back home who are sending them love.  Thank you from all!

In Moyo we have 4 children who are living in an orphanage run by the same sisters.  I suppose most of you, as I, think that an orphanage would be a depressing place, a la “Annie” .  I must say, although parents and home life can never be replaced, this is a happy place.  The children are singing and happy and well fed.  The nuns love them very much.  We all need to keep praying for them though, because there are many of them, and not many nuns, so send them as much love as you can in your prayers!  They are really beautiful children.

Moving on to Paidha, we were in the true African village where Sr. Rosemary grew up, with no water or electricity.  What a  wonderful place!  The people are poor but not starving. Life is very simple–mud huts and grass roofs.  There is a tangible sense of connectedness and community here that I have never felt anyplace else before.

They realize how much they need each other, and they take care of one another.  We can all learn something from this way of life.  Our celebration with the 40 Tree of Wisdom children in Paidha was equally wonderful with much singing and joy.

On return to Gulu, our last gathering was with our few 6 students who are in secondary school.  At the inception of Tree of Wisdom we intended to support primary students only.  After learning about these students and reflecting further, we decided it was important to continue to support these children through secondary school if they continued to do well.  I must admit that our time with these young people was the most inspiring.

While I was in Gulu, we received report cards from 3 of the TOW teenagers who had been brought from the village and started in boarding school.  They are 1st, 3rd, and 5th in their class of 85 children.  These are teenagers, who were destitute in the village, and really didn’t have a chance to continue on in their education.  Janet wants to be a lawyer, Edmon wants to be a doctor &  Diana wants to be a teacher. ( I told  Janet she could only be a lawyer if she promised not to sue doctors!)  It is amazing to see the hope and ambition that these young people exude.  Please pray for their continued success.

Tree of Wisdom is growing strong and tall!  Great thanks to all of you for your support!

For more stories, the travel blog from my trip can be found at docsgogulu.blogspot.com.

God bless you,

Monique

Spring Blossoms

May 9th, 2010

Happy Mothers’ Day!

As nature is springing to life across Northeastern Ohio, I can’t help but think of the Tree of Wisdom children who have just finished their first term in school.  Many of these children had never been in school before this February.  The children in Gulu arrived at St. Monica’s to look for Sr. Rosemary so they could show her their reports.  They all worked very hard and got very good marks.  How proud and happy they were to have a chance to learn and show their abilities.  Sr Rosemary also received reports from Atiak and Paidha about the excellent performance of the Tree of Wisdom children.

The stories of the individual children have been amazing.  Some of them we know more about than others.  As we get more information we will add it to the website.

Let me share with you the Story of James R.

James is a 12 year old boy from Atiak, a very poor village about 2 hours north of Gulu which was devastated by the war about ten years ago.  Several years ago James was orphaned as a result of his father killing his mother.  He was living with an uncle who is very poor and unable to send him to school.  In November James was invited to be a part of  the Tree of Wisdom family.

Sr. Rosemary conducted the first Tree of Wisdom meeting in Atiak in November with about 40 orphans and their guardians.  She explained that we would be providing school fees, uniforms, and other basic necessities to the children in the program.  When she was finished, she asked if there were any questions.  Young James stood up and said to her, “Sister, I know that I have worms living in my belly.  What good is an education going to do for me if I die?  I need healthcare.”  He was right–what a wise young man.

On that day James and two other children who were identified to be at health risk were taken to the hospital in Gulu for testing and medical care.   The doctors confirmed James’ suspicions.  He did indeed have worms in his belly. He has since been treated, is healthy and thriving.

Through this experience, Sr Rosemary discovered that James had an amazing aptitude for learning.  Despite his limited education, he spoke English very well.  The decision was made to keep James in Gulu so he could attend a higher quality school.  A few weeks later, an American Jesuit priest arrived at St Monica’s asking Sister if she knew of any children who might benefit from a Jesuit education.  She immediately thought of James.  He met with the priest and explained that he would someday like to be a teacher.  James will be attending the Jesuit school being built in Gulu once they are able to receive students.

Some months later, Sister Rosemary met with James again.  She found him to be excelling in school and adapting very well to his new environment.  He said to her, ” Sister, I think I want to be a priest.  The word of God is sweet to me and I want to share it with other people.”  Needless to say, James is an inspiring young man.  I am humbled to think of the blessings he will share with the people in his future as a result of the opportunity he has been given by Tree of Wisdom.

The generosity of our sponsors will continue to have far reaching benefits for many.  Because of James’ statement about the need for healthcare, TOW has created a contingency fund for children like James who have additional needs that cannot be paid for with the basic sponsorship funds.   The fund is being supported by individual donors and some of the proceeds from the St Monica’s Bead project.  It will allow us to meet the special needs of some of the orphans including healthcare, hospitalization, secondary school tuition, special formulas for malnourished babies, etc.  This allows Tree of Wisdom to  continue to support the children even if they go beyond the funds provided by basic sponsorship.  Thanks to all of you, once again, for your generosity and support.

We can change the world, one child at a time.

God bless you all!

A Lenten Reflection

February 18th, 2010

A BEAUTIFUL BEGININING OF LENT.  I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST DURING THIS IMPORTANT SEASON.

I would like to share  a story of a few days ago…

Tree of Wisdom is eventually not only for sponsorship for kids but is becoming life saving as well.  We have gone well beyond the education only, but more in welfare of kids and their growth.

A woman named Grace who is HIV+ and a widow, was sent by God yesterday evening to our house as two us missed to go in for prayer because we did not hear the bell ring. To me she had the face of Jesus, hungry and sick.  She was carrying her baby  and they walked in the the first heavy rain after the dry spell we experienced for long, looking for something to eat after staying hungry for three days with her children.  She arrived all washed by rain and was shivering with a hungry baby.  She  looked for some employment like washing people’s clothes the whole day, and did not find anybody who could give her work for even less than ten dollars to buy food for her 3 kids.  No one wanted to hire her because she was HIV+.

I thought the kid was very small, but when Sr. Pauline and I came to the mother with some left over food from our house, the kid stretched out his little hands to receive the food.  This action put me off and I realized the kid is one year old but looks like only six months because he is under fed.  This was a sight impossible to ignore.  I thank God because we had some food left in the house enough to feed this woman and her 3 kids.

I told the woman to return the next day.  She is going to join other women making necklaces in order to get some money with dignity to look after her children, while the baby can be fed in our Day Care Centre.

The Tree of Wisdom is making us go an extra mile to develop the dignity of the most vulnerable people as well.  I am impressed at the how my sisters from time to time come back from their different places of work to tell me the needs of children and poor mothers they meet.  Without the gift of the Tree of Wisdom,  we would have closed our eyes and ignored some of these urgent needs, or we would respond in a way which might make people recall  some negative things nuns did to them while they were in schools.  I am now realizing that, in the past, some negative situations could have been created when the nuns felt there was no way to respond to such situations as these ones.  I am trying to read the past in the present and, “At Such A Time As This”,  thank you for making us understand that our vocation is clearly seen in the faces of the poor, hungry, and malnourished Jesus.

We did not know this project would lead us as far as this.  Thanks to those who have managed to decorate the Tree of Wisdom with the beautiful necklaces made by the guardians, poor women and grand parents of TOW children.

I am always wondering about what God is doing to this Tree but with time the leaves are growing and the branches are expanding in God’s direction.  Maybe it is too early to clearly say, these are our objectives as well.  God seems to be spelling out the objectives and mission statement too.  God is writing the Strategic Plan for the Tree of Wisdom.  Let us be quiet and thank him.

God bless our Tree and its fruits.

Sr. Rosemary Nyirumbe

Off to School!!

January 26th, 2010

What an exciting time it has been preparing for the Tree of Wisdom children to begin school!  Sr Rosemary, Mr Komakec and many others have been busily gathering supplies.  With 87 children now adopted into the program the lists are long.  The items include uniforms, shoes, book bags, notebooks, pens, pencils, erasers, etc.  Remember how excited we all were preparing for our first day of school?  Imagine how happy and hopeful these children are with their new supplies that represent hope for a future.

Some of the things we in America don’t think about when returning to school are also included.  A new plate and cup will be provided so that the children can take part in the food provided at the school.  We are also providing bars of soap for the children–one for bathing and one for laundry.  Good hygiene is the first step toward good health.  Finally, mosquito nets will be provided to each of the children to reduce their exposure to the mosquitoes that cause malaria–a disease that takes more lives every year in Africa than HIV.

Allow me to take this opportunity to share with you the story of Rosemary, a lovely young woman we had the pleasure of meeting on our last trip to Uganda.  When Rosemary was born, she was abandoned by her father,  and her mother was unable to care for her. The mother asked the Sisters at St Monica to care for her child.  They willingly accepted, along with Catherine, the biological sister of Sister Rosemary.  Young Rosemary grew up beautifully and last weekend graduated with high honors from the University.  She is now volunteering a lot of her time helping with the Tree of Wisdom project.  She says, ” I am one of them.  Without the help of the Sisters, I never could have come to this place in my life. This is my opportunity to share my gifts with them.”  She has provided tremendous inspiration to these children, as she travels from place to place telling them her story.  Her example shows us all the difference that love and support can make in the life of a child.  Congratulations to Rosemary for her hard work and dedication, and for being a beacon of light!!  Our hope is that the Tree of Wisdom children will follow in her footsteps.

The first day of school is February 1.  Please say a special prayer for the children on this day.

With gratitude,

Monique

TOW children dressed in Christmas clothes for school

UNICEF – The Convention on the Rights of the Child – People and Partners – Sister Rosemary

January 22nd, 2010

Click here to see an article written by Sr. Rosemary for UNICEF.

UNICEF – The Convention on the Rights of the Child – People and Partners – Sister Rosemary.

First Fruits–Sister Rosemary’s 3 village tour to launch the Tree of Wisdom

December 20th, 2009

The Tree of Wisdom is growing with amazing strength!  It’s branches are already reaching out to shelter and feed over 70 orphans in Northern Uganda.  The children live in the vicinity of 3 main villages:  Gulu, Atiak, and Paidha.  Over the past 2 weeks, Sr. Rosemary has been traveling to these areas and meeting with all of the orphans and their guardians to introduce them to the Tree of Wisdom program.  Explaining that the Tree of Wisdom is not just a handout, but intended to care for the children in all ways.  They need to be fed, clothed, sent to school, well cared for, and supported in the home environment.  We have hired a young man named Robert Komakech to follow the children, and see that these goals are being met.  In his words, he is going to be their father and will watch over them.  The new program has been received with great enthusiasm by all.  The children are now part of the TOW family–a sense of belonging which is sorely needed by all people, especially orphans.  The guardians have decided to start an association among themselves to support one another.  Thanks to the generosity of all of you,  a beautiful new family is growing roots.

When Sister met with the children they had many interesting questions.  One young boy, 12 years old, said we could send him to school and feed him but he was concerned about his health.  He said, “my abdomen is distended and I know there is something living in there, what good is school if I die from this disease?” A very wise young man.  Many of these children have distended abdomens either from malnutrition or from schistosomiasis–a parasite contracted through the skin from not wearing shoes.  With this we decided to ask the Physician Assistant and Nurse from St Monica’s to go to the villages to provide some basic healthcare for these children.

Sister asked a group of  children how we could make Christmas special for them this year.  A young child stood up and said they would love to get to eat meat on Christmas day.  All the rest enthusiastically agreed.  When our children are asked what they want for Christmas, do they ask for food?   So, in honor of Christmas, the first fruits of the Tree of Wisdom included a bag of rice, a small amount of money to buy meat for Christmas day, and a small toy for each of the children.  Sister said it was amazing the smiles that it brought to the childrens’ faces.  Now this is the true meaning of Christmas.  All of our sponsors are bringing hope to the hopeless–THANK YOU!!

Gob bless you and your families at this beautiful Christmas Season.  Let’s remember to be thankful for all the little things we all take for granted in this land of plenty.

Merry Christmas!

Monique

Tree of Wisdom Distant Adoption

September 7th, 2009
welcome to our school!

welcome to our school!

As we start a new  year, we are embarking on a very exciting new project called Tree of Wisdom Distant Adoption. As many of  you know, my husband Stan and I are both physicians who traveled to Northern Uganda in July 2008. It was an experience that changed us both forever. The conditions are grim and the poverty is extreme. Half of the population is less than 15 years old. As a result of 20 years of rebel insurgency warfare and HIV, there are many orphans.  We just couldn’t turn our backs on them.

Since returning home, it has become clearer to us why we went in the first place. We are striving to find ways to provide relief directly. While in Uganda we were very lucky to make some close friendships. The most special of which was with Sister Rosemary Nyirumbe    , Director of St. Monica’s Girls’ Tailoring Centre, and winner of the 2007 CNN Heroes Award. Together we have developed a program for distant adoption of children who don’t have the basic necessities of life.

Sr. Rosemary has identified many children who are unable to attend primary school due to lack of resources. A donation of $150 per year will provide a specific child with food, clothing, and the necessities of life for hope for a future.  The sponsors will receive the name of the child, a picture, and at least one letter from them at some point in the year. All donor information, except for first names, will be kept strictly confidential by me. All correspondence will be directed to me and I will distribute it via regular or e-mail.

If you would be interested in sponsoring one of these children please send a check for $150 made out to Tree of Wisdom:

Tree of Wisdom Distant Adoption
PO Box 272
Avon Lake, OH 44012

If you have further questions please do not hesitate to contact me at 440-949-9066.  Your donation will be used to help your adopted child and is fully tax deductible. Please include your address, phone number, and e-mail address, indicating how you prefer to be contacted. No information will be shared with third parties.  Thank you in advance for opening your heart to these needy children.

God bless you,
Monique Richardson, MD